No matter how hard you try no pun intended , his penis will be the first thing you think of when you think of him. It happens so fast that before you know it, there it is — his penis plastered in the center of your mind. You never really know where you stand. Once you sleep together, there tend to be mixed signals all over the place or at least it feels like mixed signals.
I randomly okay, maybe not so randomly since it happened twice hooked up with one of my best guy friends, and for a while, he was always there. I would go out on a date, he would call. I would make plans with a guy and he would magically be in the neighborhood to have lunch. I felt bad.
I wanted to still have a friendship with him but I was afraid of hurting his feelings. Recycling is imminent. In some cases, it can save you from making even dumber decisions, like going out to a bar for a one-night stand with a stranger.
Sometimes you just crave the feeling of having someone laying on top of you or next to you, and it can be a bonus when that person happens to be your friend as well. Fantasies about his junk are inevitable. Once can be considered an accident; twice can be considered a coincidence. The third time? What if you really DO like him? Can you have a relationship other than friends?
The possibilities are endless. Why did you go there? Did you subconsciously want to all along? Were you bored and lonely or do you actually have feelings?
This ambiguous zone of not quite boyfriend and girlfriend but definitely more than friends is where feelings can and usually do get hurt. The lines can get blurry. If one of you decides to start seeing someone else, that effectively puts an end to… whatever it is you had going on. You immediately connect with an awesome coach on text or over the phone in minutes. Just click here …. Currently live in Lala Land aka Hollywood. BA in English. I live at the beach any chance I get. Searching for answers one horror story at a time, while trying to find love and a little laughter.
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